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		<title>Prosperity Wheels &#8211; What Do You Have On Yours?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2012 18:28:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Your Thoughts become things? The more you think of something, the more likely it will enter your life. This is THE LAW OF ATTRACTION. A prosperity Wheel will help you achieve anything you desire If your 'Goal' is realistic and You Believe You Can Achieve It. ]]></description>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">What is on Your Prosperity Wheel?</span></h1>
<p>Are you aware that Your Thoughts become things?<br />
The more you think of something, the more likely it will enter your life.</p>
<p>This works equally well for positive and negative things<br />
If you think over and over, &#8220;I will have fun tonight!&#8221;<br />
Guess what? You WILL have fun tonight!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">This process has a special name, its called:<br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>THE LAW OF ATTRACTION</strong></span></span></h3>
<p>If you really want to manifest something in your life, it is more effective to<br />
write down this &#8216;goal&#8217;  rather than &#8220;just thinking about it&#8221;<br />
It will be even more effective if you write it on something that you will see every day</p>
<p>Say you really want a New Car? or an exotic holiday? or a new special Partner in your life?</p>
<p>Get a colour picture of your &#8216;goal&#8217; (a car; holiday or special partner) together with a colour picture<br />
of yourself and stick them on the wall in a prominent place where you will see it every day</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">You have just made A Prosperity Wheel</span></h2>
<p>That is a very basic Prosperity Wheel but it is a very good start</p>
<p>The next phase it to add pictures of all the other thing you desire;<br />
put them<span id="more-1054"></span> in a circle with your picture in the middle</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Yesterday I thought about adding an image of a Song Thrush to my Prosperity Wheel<br />
because we haven&#8217;t seen any Thrushes near us for years.</p>
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<p>This morning a Song Thrush was feeding on our lawn</p>
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<p>I hadn&#8217;t got round to adding it to my wheel, I just Thought About adding a picture of a Song Thrush<br />
(I must have my camera ready tomorrow morning in case it reappears)</p>
<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">Did my thoughts attract the Thrush?<br />
Of course they did</div>
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<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">OK, OK, OK I hear you!</div>
<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">A bird feeding on my lawn is not quite the same a a New Car or a Holiday<br />
It&#8217;s really easy for God/The Universe/ Source to bring things that can fly&#8230;</div>
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<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">That is very true but it all works the same way, the holiday and the car<br />
just take a little longer to materialise.</div>
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<h3 class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Can you manifest anything and everything with a Prosperity Wheel?</span></h3>
<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">Yes you can; as long as it is realistic and<strong> You Believe You Can Achieve It</strong>.</div>
<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">There is no point trying to attract a Holiday on the Moon or a Formula One Racing car on your driveway<br />
Or a Million pounds/dollars in your bank account tomorrow!</div>
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<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">If your &#8216;Goal&#8217; is realistic and<span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong> You Believe You Can Achieve It</strong></span>,<br />
a Prosperity Wheel will help you manifest your dreams</div>
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<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">There is more to it of course.<br />
The first thing is, <strong>You MUST</strong> <strong>Believe You Can Achieve It,<br />
T</strong>here is no point putting a picture of Your Dream House on the Prosperity Wheel<br />
and saying to yourself, &#8220;That will never happen to me, I&#8217;ll never own a house like that!&#8221;</div>
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<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">Guess what? Your thoughts will come true, You will never own the house.</div>
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<h4 class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="color: #000000;">The next thing is</span> &#8220;The Universal Disclaimer&#8221;</span></h4>
<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">This must be added to your Prosperity Wheel:</div>
<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">&#8220;These things or better now manifest for me in easy and pleasant ways<br />
for the highest good of all concerned&#8221;</div>
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<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">You don&#8217;t want to get money from an insurance claim for breaking your legs in an accident</div>
<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">or other Negative benefit, you must wish for &#8220;the highest good of all concerned&#8221;</div>
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<div class="zemanta-pixie" style="margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;">I hope you have fun with Your Prosperity Wheel<br />
and I wish you everything you desire</div>
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		<title>Meditation Works &#8211; But How Do You Do It?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2011 23:28:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Meditation is not an option these days</span></h1>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">If you want to survive in the 21st Century</span><br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;">You  have no option    -   You have got to Meditate</span></h2>
<p>If you spend just 1 minute Meditating every day</p>
<p>Maybe after you WAKE up - but before you GET up<br />
Or when your Head is running too fast</p>
<p>Meditation will help you get your head into gear and you can take on the world</p>
<p>Meditation helps with many things: it can help you de-stress, become more self-aware,<br />
and it can even reduce your sensation of pain.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">A new study has found yet another benefit:</span><br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;"> meditation helps you tune out distractions<br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;">even when</span></span><span style="color: #0000ff;"> you are not mediating!</span></h3>
<p>Here is a very good video to get you started</p>
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<p class="zemanta-related-title" style="font-size: 1em;">The video is a plug for a book called One-Moment Meditation<br />
but I haven&#8217;t bought it yet (I will)<br />
until I&#8217;ve read it, I don&#8217;t know if it really works.</p>
<p class="zemanta-related-title" style="font-size: 1em;">When I&#8217;ve read the book, I will review it here</p>
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		<title>Positive Thinking Pitfalls</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 12:24:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Positive Thinking seems to be the buzzwords of the moment. To get what you want from The Law Of Attraction, you have to not only think positively but you must also take positive action. This video should help you achieve your goals.]]></description>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">&#8216;Positive Thinking&#8217; seem to be the buzzwords of the moment.</span></h2>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">The Law of Attraction will make it all drop into your lap?</span></h3>
<p>When you watch films like &#8220;The Secrets,&#8221; you are told, all you have to do is: use Positive Thinking and think about what you want and miraculously The Law of Attraction will make it all drop into your lap?</p>
<p>Unfortunately, most of us live in the real world where things are not quite that simple. Without any doubt, there can be an element of positive thinking bringing real world gains but it is only a small element.  To get what you want you have to not only think positively but you must also take positive action.</p>
<p>Here is a delightful animated video by Barbara Ehrenreich that perfectly explains the point I&#8217;m making.  This video should help you achieve your goals by using Positive Thinking and The Law Of Attraction.  Just watch and enjoy:</p>
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<p>Hope you enjoyed Barbara&#8217;s message and you are now going to spend your time acting positively so that there is no room in your head for negative thoughts. Your new found positive energy combined with your positive thinking will bring many positive benefits to you and all you care for.</p>
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		<title>Pure Prosperity &#8211; Make Friends With Money</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2011 21:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Maggy Whitehouse, a prolific mentor in the prosperity field, mainly with her work on The Law Of Attraction.  Here she gives away a free webinar recording ]]></description>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Today I have a gift for all my regular readers</span></h2>
<p>One of my most inspiring mentors; <a class="zem_slink" title="Maggy Whitehouse" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maggy_Whitehouse" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maggy_Whitehouse?referer=');">Maggy Whitehouse</a>, held a One Hour seminar recently</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #000b62; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: normal;"><a title="Click here to go to Maggy's site" href="http://www.pureprosperity.com/" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.pureprosperity.com/?referer=');">Introduction to the Spiritual Laws of Prosperity.</a></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000b62; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: normal;">She </span></span>has produced an MP3 of this and you can get your hands on it for free from <a title="Maggy's Pure Prosperity Website" href="http://www.pureprosperity.com/" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.pureprosperity.com/?referer=');">her website</a> or from the link above, no opt-in required.</p>
<p>Maggy is an inspiring author, TV and radio journalist, and a thoroughly good egg! As she describes herself on her blog:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Prosperity mentor, author, journalist, workshop leader, dog walker, horse rider, drinker of champagne, eater of good chocolate, lover of roses, peonies, sweet peas, sunsets, Tuscany, beagles, Koi carp, cooking—and her husband, Lion.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve survived an encounter with an eight foot barracuda off the Barrier Reef, being swept down a river in full flood and being trapped on a narrow bridge in front of an oncoming Chinese train. I’ve ridden on the back of a tiger, emigrated to Montana, USA for a whole 11 months, been made redundant and I’ve been both widowed and divorced.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>As you can see, Maggy has lived life to the full and her Prosperity Teachings reflect this.  She has currently just completed week 3 of a 6 week course which I find fascinating:</p>
<p><a title="HeartWork Webinar Full Details" href="http://totallylookedafter.blogspot.com/2011/04/spiritual-marketing-six-week-webinar.html" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/totallylookedafter.blogspot.com/2011/04/spiritual-marketing-six-week-webinar.html?referer=');">HeartWork &#8211; Transform your hearts desire into a successful, prosperous business</a></p>
<p>Please feel free to follow any of the links in this article, no opt-in required.</p>
<p>For the link to Maggy&#8217;s free webinar <a title="Link to Maggy's Prosperity Webinar" href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Freewebinarb.mp3" target="_blank">Click Here</a></p>
<p>None of the links in this post are affiliate links; I get no monetary benefit from promoting Maggy&#8217;s courses.  I promote them because I believe in them; they work for me and if you let them, they will work for you!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Let Maggy tell you herself in this video:</p>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Enjoy and Prosper</span></h2>
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		<title>Set Your Goals! What Goals?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 09:49:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["The Best way to get on in the world, is to set your Goals; Work out the best route or plan to achieve them Follow that plan... and reach YOUR GOAL" Useful as this advice undoubtedly is, How can You set and then reach Your Goals If you haven't got a clue what your goals are?]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;">If you are interested in personal development or success coaching<br />
(and who isn&#8217;t?) you have probably been given the following advice</p>
<p>How many times have you been told this:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">&#8220;The Best way to get on in the world, is to set your Goals;</span><br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;"> Work out the best route or plan to achieve them</span><br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;"> Follow that plan&#8230; and reach YOUR GOAL&#8221;</span></p>
<p>This is usually accompanied by the advice</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">&#8220;Think Positively&#8221;</span></strong></p>
<p>Useful as this advice undoubtedly is,<br />
How can You set and then reach Your Goals<br />
If you haven&#8217;t got a clue what your goals are???</p>
<p>No amount of &#8220;Positive Thinking&#8221; will teach you what your goals are</p>
<p>Luckily, Mike Hersee has produced an easy to follow list of questions<br />
that you should ask yourself, to discover what Your Goals are.</p>
<p>Here is a short video of Mike explaining it to you</p>
<p><iframe title="YouTube video player" width="480" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/iqrk5tqO3mo?rel=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p>You can get the full story from Mike&#8217;s website</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Emergent Wisdom.com" href="http://www.emergentwisdom.com/personal-development/47-goal-finding-questions.html" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.emergentwisdom.com/personal-development/47-goal-finding-questions.html?referer=');">Access Mike&#8217;s website here</a></p>
<p>The PDF of questions that Mike put together for you<br />
can be downloaded by <a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Goal_Finding_questions.pdf" target="_blank">clicking here</a></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">I hope you all enjoy this information and manage to discover</span><br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;"> what your goals really are.</span></p>
<p>Please leave your comments in the box and let us all<br />
share your experiences, good or bad</p>
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		<title>ONIONS &#8211; Wonder cure?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 09:28:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the contents of an email, sent to me by Alicia Tucker, a well respected Therapist her contact details are at the end of the article &#160; I have never tried this and hopefully won&#8217;t get sick enough to try it&#8230; but what an interesting thought and if possible amazing. Let me know your stories on [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;">This is the contents of an email,<br />
sent to me by Alicia Tucker, a well respected Therapist<br />
her contact details are at the end of the article</p>
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<p>I have never tried this and hopefully won&#8217;t get sick enough to try it&#8230;<br />
but  what an interesting thought and if possible amazing.<br />
Let me know your stories  on Onions.</p>
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<p>Who<span style="font-size: x-small;"> </span><span style="font-size: xx-large;">Would&#8217;ve  Thought?</span></p>
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<h3><span style="font-size: 20px;"><strong><a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/onions.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-773 " title="onions" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/onions.jpg" alt="" width="210" height="204" /></a></strong></span></h3>
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<p><strong><span style="color: black; font-size: medium;">In 1918 when the flu  killed 40 million people, there was a Doctor who visited many farmers to see if  he could help them combat the flu. Many of the farmers and their family had  contracted it, and many  died.</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> The doctor came upon one farmer, and  to his surprise,  everyone in the household was very healthy.  When the doctor  asked what the farmer was doing that was different, the wife replied that she  had placed an unpeeled onion in a dish in the rooms of the home (probably only  two rooms back then).  The doctor couldn&#8217;t believe it and asked if he could have  one of the onions and place it under the microscope.  She gave him one, and when  he did this, he did find the flu virus in the onion.  It obviously absorbed the  bacteria, therefore, keeping the family  healthy.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> <span id="more-772"></span>Now, I heard this story from my  hairdresser in AZ.  She said that several years ago many of her employees were  coming down with the flu and so were many of her customers. The next year she  placed several bowls with onions around in her shop.  To her surprise, none of  her staff got sick. It must work&#8230; (And no, she is not in the onion  business.)</span></p>
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</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> The moral of the story is, buy some  onions and place them in bowls around your home.  If you work at a desk, place  one or two in your office or under your desk or even on top somewhere&#8230;  Try it  and see what happens.  We did it last year, and we never  got the  flu.</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"><br />
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> If  this helps you and your loved  ones from getting sick, all the better.  If you do get the flu, it just might be  a mild case&#8230;Whatever, what have you to lose?  Just a few bucks on  onions!!!</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> Now there is a P.S. to this, for I  sent it to a friend in </span><span style="color: black; font-size: large;">Oregon</span><span style="color: black; font-size: large;"> who regularly contributes  material to me on health issues.  She replied with this most interesting  experience about onions:  Thanks for the reminder. I don&#8217;t know about the  farmer&#8217;s  story&#8230;but I do know that I contracted pneumonia, and needless to   say I was very ill.  I came across an article that said to cut both ends off an  onion.  Put one end on a fork, and then place the forked end into an empty  jar&#8230;placing the jar next to the sick patient at night.  It said the onion  would be black in the morning from the germs.  Sure enough, it happened just  like that&#8230;the onion was a mess, and I began to feel  better.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> Another thing I read in the article  was that onions and garlic placed around the room saved many from the black  plague years ago.  They have powerful antibacterial, antiseptic  properties.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;">I have used an onion which has been left in the fridge.    Sometimes I don&#8217;t use a whole one at one time, so I save the other half for  later.  Now with this info, I have changed my mind.  I will buy smaller onions  in the future.</span></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> I had the wonderful privilege of  touring Mullins Food Products, makers of  mayonnaise.  Mullins is huge, and is  owned by 11 brothers and sisters in the Mullins family.  My friend, Jeanne, is  the CEO. Questions about food poisoning came up, and I wanted to share what I  learned from a chemist.  The guy who gave us our tour  is named Ed.  He&#8217;s one of  the brothers.  Ed is a chemistry expert and is involved in developing most of  the sauce  formula.  He&#8217;s even developed sauce formula for McDonald&#8217;s. Keep in  mind that Ed is a food chemistry whiz.</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> </span></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> During the tour, someone asked if we  really needed to worry about mayonnaise.  People are always worried that  mayonnaise will spoil.  Ed&#8217;s answer will surprise you.  Ed said that all  commercially-made mayo is completely safe.  &#8220;It doesn&#8217;t even have to be  refrigerated.  No harm in refrigerating it, but it&#8217;s not really necessary.&#8221;  He  explained that the pH in mayonnaise is set  at a point that bacteria could not  survive in that environment.  He then talked about the quintessential picnic,  with the bowl of potato salad sitting on the table and how everyone blames the  mayonnaise when someone gets sick.</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> </span></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> Ed says that when food poisoning is  reported, the first thing the officials look for is when the &#8216;victim&#8217; last ate  ONIONS and where those onions came from (in the potato salad?).  Ed says it&#8217;s  not the mayonnaise (as long as it&#8217;s not homemade mayo) that spoils in the  outdoors.  It&#8217;s probably the onions, and if not the onions, it&#8217;s the  POTATOES.</span><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> </span></p>
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> He explained, onions are a huge  magnet for bacteria, especially uncooked onions.  You should never plan to keep  a portion of a sliced onion.</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"><br />
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> It&#8217;s already contaminated enough  just by being cut open and out for a bit, that it can be a danger to you (and  doubly watch out for those onions you put on your hotdogs at the baseball  park!)</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"><br />
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: x-small;"> </span><span style="color: black; font-size: large;"> Ed says if  you take the  leftover onion and cook it like crazy you&#8217;ll probably be okay, but if you slice  that leftover onion and put it on your sandwich, you&#8217;re asking for trouble.   Both the onions and the moist potato in a potato salad will attract and grow  bacteria faster than any commercial mayonnaise will even begin to break  down.</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"><br />
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> So, how&#8217;s that for news?  Take it  for what you will.  I (the author) am going to be very careful about my onions  from now on. For some reason, I see a lot of credibility coming from a chemist  and a company that produces millions of pounds of  mayonnaise every  year.</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"><br />
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<p><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"> <strong> Also, dogs should never eat onions..  Their stomachs  cannot metabolize onions.</strong></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: small;"><br />
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<div><em>Thank you, Alicia Tucker</em></div>
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Today, I want to share with you a video that shows you how to use this technique to create the life of your dreams.
It's by Jack Canfield, co-creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul and featured expert in the hit film "The Secret."]]></description>
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<p>This is Really Worth Reading&#8230; or Watching on Video!</p>
<p>Is there anything you want more of?<br />
Is there anything you want better or different?</p>
<p>Will you be surprised to discover there is a secret technique used by many successful people<br />
you might not realize just how powerful it can be in creating the life of your dreams.</p>
<div id="_mcePaste">I&#8217;m talking about being able to do, be and have anything and everything you want from life.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">Whether it be financial abundance, or spiritual abundance or just plain &#8216;ole happiness.</div>
<div>This weird technique CAN be the ticket to making it all happen.</div>
<div>Today, I want to share with you a video that shows you how to use this technique to create the life of your dreams.</div>
<div id="_mcePaste">It&#8217;s by Jack Canfield, co-creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul and<br />
featured expert in the hit film &#8220;The Secret.&#8221;</div>
<div>You can watch the video here:</div>
<p><a href="http://www.thetappingsolution.com/cmd.php?Clk=4148646" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.thetappingsolution.com/cmd.php?Clk=4148646&amp;referer=');"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-761" title="JackCanfield_video" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/JackCanfield_vid-300x167.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="167" /></a></p>
<div>In this f.r.e.e. video, Jack shares:</div>
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<li>How holding on to past events and traumas is holding you back from creating the future you most desire&#8230;<br />
(And how you can easily figure out and release what&#8217;s holding you back in your life)</li>
<li>The immediate results Jack experienced when he first tried EFT</li>
<li>Why you may not be getting the results you want with the Law of Attraction for a reason&#8230;<br />
(His explanation about how the mind works will blow you away!)</li>
<li>The story of the &#8220;Golden Buddha&#8221;… (This story is so heart-warming and educational! You&#8217;ll love hearing it!)<span id="more-755"></span></li>
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<div>This video is part of the Tapping World Summit Video Series, the &#8221;warmup&#8221; in a sense to the main event itself, which starts on February 21st.</div>
<div>(It’s an online audio event and 100% f.r.e.e. to attend)</div>
<div>Last year over 100,000 people attended this event online, and in 2009 over 81,000 people attended online.</div>
<div>Needless to say this is a one of a kind event&#8230;</div>
<p>When you hear from Jack Canfield, a massively successful author,<br />
speaker and leader, talk about how Tapping changed his life, you&#8217;ll<br />
likely be hooked and wish to explore it further<br />
(and get the amazing results that come from using tapping)<br />
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">We are what we think.<br />
All that we are arises with our thoughts.<br />
</span></strong><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">With our thoughts, we make the world. &#8211; </span></strong><em>Buddha</em></span></h3>
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		<title>Stamp Out Negativity…Fast!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Feb 2011 12:37:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Stamp Out Negativity…Fast! </span><br />
<span style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px;">by Darryl Hudson</span></h3>
<p>You’ve probably heard that one of the most common<br />
practices of successful people is positive thinking. But<br />
how easy is it to really make this a practice in your<br />
life? Sure, you’ve probably had good days where you could<br />
keep your thoughts positive and empowering.</p>
<p>But what about those days when it just seems that<br />
nothing is going right and you can’t seem to <span style="color: #ff0000;">keep the<br />
flies of negative thought from ruining your picnic?</span> If<br />
you’re curious about the solution to this dilemma, this<br />
simple yet powerful strategy might be just what you’re<br />
looking for…</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Reframing Your Thoughts</span></h3>
<p>The first key to stamping out negative thoughts fast<br />
is to accept that your thoughts not only influence your<span id="more-747"></span><br />
actions, but that they are also influenced BY the actions<br />
which you take in response to them. In other words, when<br />
you allow fear to influence you to act fearfully, that<br />
fear is only going to grow more and more powerful.</p>
<p>But if you refuse to allow fear to influence you to<br />
fearful actions, and if you choose acts of courage<br />
instead, you’ll find that your fear will take on a<br />
context: excitement. Think about this: biologically, <span style="color: #ff0000;">the<br />
differences between fear and excitement aren’t any<br />
different</span>. They both cause accelerated heartbeat, rapid<br />
breathing and a heightening of your physical senses.</p>
<p>But there is an enormous difference in the frame of<br />
mind that accompanies fear and that which accompanies<br />
excitement, and that frame of mind is influenced by your<br />
experiences. For example, <span style="color: #ff0000;">if you fear rejection</span> and<br />
choose to retreat into the privacy of your own thoughts,<br />
you’re only reinforcing what you fear through what<br />
psychologists call “self-rejection.”</p>
<p>On the other hand, you choose to act in courage by<br />
either approaching that prospect, or speaking to that<br />
member of the opposite sex who you’re afraid of being<br />
rejected by, you give that fear a new context. And the<br />
more persistent you are in confronting your fear with<br />
acts of courage, the less like fear it will seem, and the<br />
more excitement you’ll feel.</p>
<p>This is the fastest and most effective way to stamp<br />
out “negative” thoughts. Now, in case you’re thinking<br />
that this sounds way too simple to be true…</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Making the Switch</span></h3>
<p>Have you ever changed your mind about something? Of<br />
course you have…but what really changed? Most likely it<br />
wasn’t your mind, it was your actions…and those actions<br />
changed because your priorities changed. In other words,<br />
you decided that a new action was more important than<br />
your original action.</p>
<p>This is exactly the key to reframing your thoughts by<br />
taking new and empowering actions. The next time you’re<br />
overwhelmed by worry or fear, or any other kind of<br />
negative thought, ask yourself this: “What action is this<br />
negative thought keeping me from taking?”</p>
<p>If the action is stupid or if you don’t have it<br />
planned out, then your “negative” thought might be<br />
completely valid. It might be telling you that you need<br />
to develop a more <span style="color: #ff0000;">solid plan of action</span>. But if the action<br />
is something which would be beneficial to you or someone<br />
you care about, redirect your focus to what’s really<br />
important.</p>
<p>Your thoughts and emotions are influenced by what you<br />
focus on, and the more you focus on what’s important to<br />
you, the less thoughts and feelings of fear and worry<br />
will hinder you from taking positive action. You’ll also<br />
be more empowered to confront your negative thoughts with<br />
acts of courage, and those actions will reframe your<br />
thoughts.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">TIP:</span> The next time that you have a “negative” thought,<br />
stop and think about what that thought<br />
might be trying to tell you. </span></h3>
<p>Most often, once you discover the source of<br />
your negative thoughts, they lose their power to influence<br />
you. But if you keep trying to bury them, you’ll miss the<br />
insight that they hold, and the more persistent they’ll<br />
become.</p>
<p>My sincere thanks go to Darryl Hudson for this article</p>
<p>You can read more from Darryl on his blog <a title="http://www.darrylhudson.com" href="http://www.darrylhudson.com/" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.darrylhudson.com/?referer=');">darrylhudson.com</a></p>
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		<title>Money Was Never The Root To Evil!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2011 21:50:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Rev. Maggy Whitehouse in her webinar The Spiritual Laws of Prosperity, dispelled many myths especially the one that says,
"The love of money is the route of all evil" According to Maggy a better translation would be, "Obsession with money is A route of all the crap in your life"]]></description>
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<p>Earlier this evening I joined a wonderful webinar<br />
with the lovely Rev. Maggy Whitehouse</p>
<p>The topic was the Spiritual Laws of Prosperity,<br />
One of the subjects Maggy can extol on</p>
<p>She dispelled many myths in the hour,<br />
especially the one that says,<br />
&#8220;The love of money is the route of all evil&#8221;</p>
<p>According to Maggy a better translation would be,<br />
&#8220;Obsession with money is A route of all the crap in your life&#8221;</p>
<p>Here is a one page PDF of her translation</p>
<p><a title="Love of Money PDF" href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/MaggyLoveOfMoney.pdf" target="_blank">Maggy Love Of Money</a></p>
<p>As soon as I have the MP3 of the webinar from Maggy<br />
hopefully in a few days time, that will also be on this blog</p>
<p>I recommend you also follow Maggy on FaceBook</p>
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		<title>FAILURE! What are the benefits?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Jan 2011 23:44:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Roy</dc:creator>
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<p>The first time I read that FAILURE was an essential part of any success story was<br />
whilst reading my favourite book; Napoleon Hill&#8217;s classic work, Think and Grow Rich!</p>
<p>Napoleon uses the language of his time which can seam rather archaic in the 21st century</p>
<p>However, I was grateful to discover that one of the most successful writers of the<br />
21st century also extols the virtue of making the most of failure</p>
<p>Watch this short video and make up your own mind</p>
<p><iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/1711302" width="400" height="302" frameborder="0"></iframe>
<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/1711302" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/vimeo.com/1711302?referer=');">J.K. Rowling Speaks at Harvard Commencement</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/harvard" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/vimeo.com/harvard?referer=');">Harvard Magazine</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/vimeo.com?referer=');">Vimeo</a>.</p>
<p>Once you have watched this, I hope it puts your own tribulations into perspective</p>
<p>As always, Please post your thoughts in the comments section</p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&#8216;</span></p>
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		<title>Jim Rohn Lessons on Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2010 23:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>It is just a year ago that the world lost one of its most inspirational motivators</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Jim Rohn is sadly missed but thankfully, he left us all a great legacy</span></p>
<p>Here is a great example of his inspiration:</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">If you would like to discover more about<br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;">the inspiration of Jim Rohn</span><br />
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		<title>&#8220;Let Darren Hardy Make 2011 Your Best Year Ever!&#8221;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This Video Series from Darren Hardy Called "Living Your Best Year Ever!" will help you discover Your Road Map to Your Success in 2011]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;">The New Year 2011 is almost here and to make it<br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>YOUR BEST YEAR EVER</strong></span><br />
I have secured this exclusive<br />
4 Part Video Series from <span style="color: #0000ff;">Darren Hardy</span><br />
Called<span style="color: #ff0000;"> &#8220;Living Your Best Year Ever!&#8221; </span></p>
<p>Darren is one of the worlds leading success coaches and he will<br />
help you discover Your Road Map to Your Success in 2011</p>
<p>Darren uses graphic stories to drive the points home,<br />
I love the Chicken and Eagle story</p>
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you just cannot find; then you are probably trying too hard to look for it]]></description>
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<p>If happiness is elusive to you; something that, despite your best efforts,<br />
you just cannot find; then you are probably trying too hard to look for it,<br />
like searching for a unique  path through a forbidden forest?</p>
<p>At this time of year, we frequently get a weather system called,<br />
&#8220;Anti-Cyclonic Gloom &#8221;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #808080;">This is where the weather is just GREY!<br />
Not Hot; Not Wet, Not Cold! Just GREY</span></h3>
<p style="text-align: left;">You feel that the Dementors (from the Harry Potter Books)<br />
have tracked you down <span id="more-678"></span>and are sucking all the happiness out of you</p>
<p>If this is your situation, then just like Harry Potter<br />
You must make sure you have your Patronus ready!</p>
<p>If you are not familiar with J K Rowling&#8217;s classic character<br />
then maybe you can learn something from this excellent fiction</p>
<p>When Harry is pursued by the evil Dementors he faints!<br />
Inside his head, he relives the worst experience of his life!</p>
<p>The experience makes him feel life is just not worth living<br />
and relaxes, ready to accept whatever fate has to offer him</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">He Was Ready To Die!<br />
<span style="color: #0000ff;"> And For No Good Reason!</span></span></h3>
<p>When he finally realises that this is not an inevitability,<br />
he summons every ounce of happiness he can find within him<br />
and conjures up his Patronus.</p>
<p>This is the embodiment of the happiest thoughts that<br />
lay dormant within him!</p>
<p>He is so surprised that the happiness is just there<br />
waiting for him to grasp it!</p>
<p>It was just like his shadow; there all the time<br />
but not something he could touch and feel</p>
<p>Harry was ready to give up and die!<br />
He felt there was nothing worth living for!</p>
<p>Because he didn&#8217;t realise that happiness was just there all the time!<br />
All he had to do was accept it and enjoy it!</p>
<p>When you feel that the Dementors have pursued you<br />
and sucked all the happiness out of you</p>
<p>Just sit down in a quiet space and relax;<br />
close you eyes and take a deep breath</p>
<p>Think a &#8220;Happy Thought&#8221; of a past experience in you life<br />
and conjure up you Petronus!</p>
<p>Shout out the words to the spell,  &#8221;Expecto Patronus&#8221;</p>
<p>Repeat them over and over, &#8220;Expecto Patronus&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Expecto Patronus&#8221;, &#8220;Expecto Patronus&#8221;, &#8220;Expecto Patronus&#8221;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #0000ff;">Drive Your Dementors Away</span></h3>
<p>You will be amazed at how effective this can be<br />
Especially when you realise that your happiness<br />
is just lurking behind you like your shadow</p>
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<p><strong>The story that unfolds here is a classic tail of not being precise<br />
when asking someone else to do something for you and<br />
of not being entirely sure of the mindset of the person<br />
you are asking</strong></p>
<p><strong>Enjoy</strong></p>
<p>Hi<br />
I opened the screen door yesterday and my cat got out and has been missing since then so I was wondering if you are not to busy you could make a poster for me. It has to be A4 and I will photocopy it and put it around my suburb this afternoon.</p>
<p><a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat01.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-591" title="CarefulCat01" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat01.jpg" alt="CarefulCat01" width="350" height="269" /></a></p>
<p>This is the only photo of her I have she answers to the name Missy and is black and white and about 8 months old. missing on Harper street and my phone number.<br />
Thanks Shan.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 9.26am<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Poster</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Dear Shannon,<br />
That is shocking news. Luckily I was sitting down when I read your email and not half way up a ladder or tree. How are you holding up? I am surprised you managed to attend work at all what with thinking about Missy out there cold, frightened and alone&#8230; possibly lying on the side of the road, her back legs squashed by a vehicle, calling out &#8220;Shannon, where are you?&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Although I have two clients expecting completed work this afternoon, I will, of course, drop everything and do whatever it takes to facilitate the speedy return of Missy.<br />
Regards, David.</span></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 9.37am<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Poster</p>
<p>yeah ok thanks. I know you dont like cats but I am really worried about mine. I have to leave at 1pm today.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 10.17am<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Poster</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Dear Shannon,<br />
I never said I don&#8217;t like cats. Once, having been invited to a party, I went <span id="more-588"></span>clothes shopping beforehand and bought a pair of expensive G-Star boots. They were two sizes too small but I wanted them so badly I figured I could just wear them without socks and cut my toenails very short. As the party was only a few blocks from my place, I decided to walk. After the first block, I lost all feeling in my feet. Arriving at the party, I stumbled into a guy named Steven, spilling Malibu &amp; coke onto his white Wham &#8216;Choose Life&#8217; t-shirt, and he punched me. An hour or so after the incident, Steven sat down in a chair already occupied by a cat. The surprised cat clawed and snarled causing Steven to leap out of the chair, slip on a rug and strike his forehead onto the corner of a speaker; resulting in a two inch open gash. In its shock, the cat also defecated, leaving Steven with a foul stain down the back of his beige cargo pants. I liked that cat.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Attached poster as requested.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Regards, David.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat021.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-599" title="CarefulCat02" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat021.jpg" alt="CarefulCat02" width="350" height="495" /></a></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 10.24am<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Poster</p>
<p>yeah thats not what I was looking for at all. it looks like a movie and how come the photo of Missy is so small?</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 10.28am<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Poster</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Dear Shannon,<br />
It&#8217;s a design thing. The cat is lost in the negative space.<br />
Regards, David.</span></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 10.33am<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Poster</p>
<p>Thats just stupid. Can you do it properly please? I am extremely emotional over this and was up all night in tears. you seem to think it is funny. Can you make the photo bigger please and fix the text and do it in colour please. Thanks.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 10.46am<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Poster</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Dear Shannon,<br />
Having worked with designers for a few years now, I would have assumed you understood, despite our vague suggestions otherwise, we do not welcome constructive criticism. I don&#8217;t come downstairs and tell you how to send text messages, log onto Facebook and look out of the window. I am willing to overlook this faux pas due to you no doubt being preoccupied with thoughts of Missy attempting to make her way home across busy intersections or being trapped in a drain as it slowly fills with water. I spent three days down a well once but that was just for fun.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">I have amended and attached the poster as per your instructions.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Regards, David.</span></p>
<p><a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat031.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-600" title="CarefulCat03" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat031.jpg" alt="CarefulCat03" width="350" height="495" /></a></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 10.59am<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Poster</p>
<p>This is worse than the other one. can you make it so it shows the whole photo of Missy and delete the stupid text that says missing missy off it?<br />
I just want it to say Lost.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 11.14am<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Poster</span></p>
<p><a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat041.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-601" title="CarefulCat04" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat041.jpg" alt="CarefulCat04" width="350" height="495" /></a></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 11.21am<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Poster</p>
<p>yeah can you do the poster or not? I just want a photo and the word lost and the telephone number and when and where she was lost and her name. Not like a movie poster or anything stupid. I have to leave early today. If it was your cat I would help you.</p>
<p>Thanks.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 11.32am<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Awww</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Dear Shannon,<br />
I don&#8217;t have a cat. I once agreed to look after a friend&#8217;s cat for a week but after he dropped it off at my apartment and explained the concept of kitty litter, I kept the cat in a closed cardboard box in the shed and forgot about it. If I wanted to feed something and clean faeces, I wouldn&#8217;t have put my mother in that home after her stroke. A week later, when my friend came to collect his cat, I pretended that I was not home and mailed the box to him. Apparently I failed to put enough stamps on the package and he had to collect it from the post office and pay eighteen dollars. He still goes on about that sometimes, people need to learn to let go.<br />
I have attached the amended version of your poster as per your detailed instructions.</span></p>
<p>Regards, David.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;"><br />
</span></p>
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<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 11.47am<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Awww</p>
<p>Thats not my cat. where did you get that picture from? That cat is orange.<br />
I gave you a photo of my cat.<br />
<span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 11.58am<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Awww</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">I know, but that one is cute. As Missy has quite possibly met any one of several violent ends, it is possible you might get a better cat out of this. If anybody calls and says &#8220;I haven&#8217;t seen your orange cat but I did find a black and white one with its hind legs run over by a car, do you want it?&#8221; you can politely decline and save yourself a costly veterinarian bill.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">I knew someone who had a basset hound that had its hind legs removed after an accident and it had to walk around with one of those little buggies with wheels. If it had been my dog I would have asked for all its legs to be removed and replaced with wheels and had a remote control installed. I could charge neighbourhood kids for rides and enter it in races. If I did the same with a horse I could drive it to work. I would call it Steven.<br />
</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">Regards, David.</span></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 12.07pm<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Awww</p>
<p>Please just use the photo I gave you.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 12.22pm<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Awww</span></p>
<p><a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat06.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-596" title="CarefulCat06" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat06.jpg" alt="CarefulCat06" width="350" height="495" /></a></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 12.34pm<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Awww</p>
<p>I didnt say there was a reward. I dont have $2000 dollars. What did you even put that there for? Apart from that it is perfect can you please remove the reward bit. Thanks Shan.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 12.42pm<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Awww</span></p>
<p><a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat07.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-597" title="CarefulCat07" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat07.jpg" alt="CarefulCat07" width="350" height="495" /></a></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 12.51pm<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Awww</p>
<p>Can you just please take the reward bit off altogether? I have to leave in ten minutes and I still have to make photocopies of it.</p>
<p><span style="color: #666699;">From: David Thorne<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 12.56pm<br />
To: Shannon Walkley<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Awww</span></p>
<p><a href="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat08.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-598" title="CarefulCat08" src="http://how2helpyourself.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/CarefulCat08.jpg" alt="CarefulCat08" width="350" height="495" /></a></p>
<p>From: Shannon Walkley<br />
Date: Monday 21 June 2010 1.03pm<br />
To: David Thorne<br />
Subject: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Awww</p>
<p>Fine. That will have to do.</p>
<p><strong>That was copied from an email sent anonymously to my daughter<br />
If this is your work, or you know who wrote it; I would appreciate it if you could let me know, so that due credit may be given</strong></p>
<p><strong>Whoever you are </strong></p>
<p><strong>Thanks</strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>I am indebted to all those who brought the source of this article to my attention</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>It is the work of David Thorne<br />
Thank you David for giving me permission to use your work<br />
</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Please visit David&#8217;s website where there are many more very funny stories:</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong> <a href="http://www.27bslash6.com/missy.html" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.27bslash6.com/missy.html?referer=');">Click this link for David&#8217;s website</a></strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">http://www.27bslash6.com/missy.html</span></p>
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<p>&#8220;Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.&#8221;</p>
<p>I love that.  Dale Carnegie is an inspirational fella who has changed<br />
the mindsets of people all over the planet, for many years now.</p>
<p>Yes, mindset in ANYTHING you do in life is soooo important.<br />
If your mind cannot believe that you are capable of doing something<br />
then you will never accomplish that goal.</p>
<p>So this week we have a free eBook about personal development, and I was<br />
hoping that you could spare a minute or two and just think&#8230;<br />
think about how your mindset it, what your dreams are<br />
do you even allow yourself to dream anymore?<br />
Where do you see yourself in 5 years if you keep doing what you are doing<br />
where do you want to see yourself&#8230; and how can you get there?</p>
<p>OK &#8211; enough from me.</p>
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